Ok wow do I feel shallow about everything that I just wrote. I have a wonderful relationship in every other way and he is an amazing man. More then I could ever ask for. The sex is not a big deal and it's not his job to make me feel sexy it's mine. I'm not as shallow as I sound. I'm so happy i make my friends sick. We don't fight and laugh all the time. We have a wonderful life and I have nothing to complain about. I'm fine without the little things because I have all of the big things but somedays I think it's ok to be a little shallow and miss the little things.